These are also the things you tend to let slide. You busy yourself with so-called goals that are really tasks because you’re afraid to challenge yourself with real goals.
A real goal is something that expresses your essence. In order to reach it, you will have to dig deep inside yourself - beyond all the garbage thinking you’ve been carrying around. You will have to believe in YOU.
So, is your goal tied to a state of being that describes at least one of the purposes you have in this life? For example, do you want to be helpful to others? Do you find when you are involved in something that expresses this yearning, you are deeply satisfied?
Then there’s a good chance that it is one of the purposes you have chosen for yourself this lifetime. Some examples might be: to be financially successful (expresses a harmony with the energy of money), to be a successful entrepreneur, and so on.
If your goal is tied to a soul yearning, it has a power feeding it unlike that of any other goal.