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Are You Walking into Doors or Through Them?

2/16/2023

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Wanting a different life does not make you unusual. Statistics indicate that huge numbers of people in the United States want to be in a different occupation. Why do you think there are so many entrepreneurs in this country??
 
Despite the pull to search for happiness by changing what they do, the resistance to change for people is a powerful adversary. It's not easy to let go of what you have. The degree to which you are willing to do this determines how much and how quickly you succeed in your efforts.
 
Change is something most of us resist right up to our last breaths. People are willing to hang on to a miserable condition just because it is what they're used to. Unfortunately, their misery has become more comfortable and appealing than the risk of change.
 
A man told my husband once he had lost his job in a foundry after 22 years of loyal service. He had not been able to find another job because the industry was sending this type of work overseas. My husband suggested he go back to the local junior college and learn a new skill. He didn't think the man would take the suggestion seriously, but he fooled him. The next time he saw this man, he learned he had taken the advice and gone back to school. The man had become an accountant and was loving it!
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We have to  open ourselves up to possibilities which are outside what we can imagine at the moment. Be open and receptive.
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It is my belief that no door ever closes without another opening. The trick is learning to accept this as a possibility. This will only happen if you choose to see it this way, and if you’ve chosen to enjoy your life in spite of it all!
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Thalia Miller
2/18/2023 10:07:48 am

I am having this struggle with myself currently. I am only a few years out from retirement, but my job that I once loved has become unfulfilling and even excruciating at times. I feel like it's too late to start over but I also don't want to spend the next 4-5 years being miserable at work. Then there is the question of whether anyone would even hire me at my age. So...I am looking for ways to become self-employed at the ripe old age of 63. It's exciting and scary at the same time, but I am optimistic that it will be worth it.

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Dannye Williamsen
2/18/2023 10:34:53 am

Thalia, I totally understand. I'm 74, and I have learned that the biggest challenge I've had in recent years is fear, fear of not being able to find a place for myself. But, what choice do we really have? If we let our fear control us, nothing positive will ever happen. We have to put on our big girl panties and take a chance.
Perhaps you should start putting out feelers with an attitude of expecting the best, and when that door opens, you'll be ready for the change. They tell me that employers are more open to those who are still working elsewhere.
Don't waste too much time fretting. Take action. Your angst at work may not be as distressing when you know you are busy looking for the open door meant for you.
All the best on your quest!

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    Dannye Williamsen

    I have been studying the human psyche and its wonderful and often frustrating journey for over four decades. It was only natural that my love of writing and teaching became part of this journey. 

    My writings are dedicated to those who are willing to search  outside the box for meaning in their lives, who are willing to shift their view of the world just enough to recognize they are unique expressions, and who are willing to do the inner work to improve their understanding of who they are.

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